Guidelines for Seeking a Spouse

One of the most important decisions of our life is who we marry. In Genesis 24 we see several principles in the relationship of Isaac and Rebekah that Christians can apply today. Here are five principles to consider: 1. Parents Take counsel from Godly parents and counselors.Parents/counselors can often be more objective than you.Parents/counselors may … Read more

Isaac and Rebekah: (5) The Beauty of God’s Plan Unfolding

Scripture: Genesis 24:62-67 The story of Isaac and Rebekah concludes with a beautiful picture of God’s plan coming together. Isaac, who had been mourning the loss of his mother, finds comfort in Rebekah. Two lives, previously unknown to each other, are brought together in a union that would continue God’s covenant line. A meeting ordained … Read more

Isaac and Rebekah: (4) God’s Guidance in Life’s Journey

Scripture: Genesis 24:27, 48 Throughout this record, we see God’s guiding hand at work. Abraham’s servant recognizes and acknowledges this divine guidance, repeatedly giving thanks to God for leading him “in the way.” This story illustrates a beautiful truth: when we walk in God’s ways, He directs our paths. The servant was faithful to his … Read more

Come, O Thou Traveller Unknown

John and Charles Wesley were used of God in a powerful way. Not only in the Christian world, but nations and empires were different because of their lives. Charles Wesley wrote over 6500 hymns during his lifetime and many of them are still favorites today. Isaac Watts, who himself is probably Charles’ only equal when … Read more

Raising Boys to Be Men

In a recent podcast episode, we discussed the subject of raising boys to be men. You can listen to the episode here: https://www.podbean.com/ep/pb-vbgeq-1720420 Books have been written on the subject, and what I offer here is just a brief outline of some of my goals in raising my son. I believe I could easily expand … Read more

Isaac and Rebekah: (3) The Importance of Character

In seeking a wife for Isaac, Abraham emphasized the importance of character and faith over external factors like appearance, wealth, or status. Rebekah is described as “very attractive in appearance”fair to look upon,” but it’s her actions that truly reveal her character – her kindness, industriousness, and willingness to step out in faith. When given … Read more

Isaac and Rebekah: (2) The Beauty of Servanthood

Scripture: Genesis 24:15-20 Rebekah’s character shines through in her interaction with Abraham’s servant. When asked for a drink, she readily agrees, but goes above and beyond, offering to water the camels as well. This was no small task – according to some sources watering ten camels could require up to 500 gallons of water and … Read more

Isaac and Rebekah: (1) The Importance of Prayer in Decision Making

Scripture: Genesis 24:12-14 Abraham’s servant, commissioned with finding a wife for Isaac, demonstrates the crucial role of prayer in decision-making. As soon as he arrived at his destination, his first action was to pray for God’s guidance. He doesn’t rely solely on his own judgment but seeks God’s leading in this important task. In our … Read more

Making Church a Non-Negotiable

It’s often, and correctly, said that Sunday morning church is a Saturday night decision. But that’s only part of the story. Regular church attendance is a life choice. Some schedule their lives so that not even a Saturday night decision can make Sunday church happen. Sunday morning church involves a Saturday night decision, but it … Read more

Book Review – The Ten Commandments of Dating

“The Ten Commandments of Dating” Outside of marriage, one of the most important and impactful areas of a person’s life is who they marry. Who they marry is ultimately decided by who they date. So, good principles about dating are vital. I would highly recommend this book to parents, pastors, youth leaders, young adults (I’m … Read more